Don’t propose before she asks you to
Never marry a woman who is not eager to have your babies.
Time will come when you badly want a wife. But no matter how much you want it, don’t marry a woman who’s not ready to commit to you.
How do you know she’s ready? When she poses a question along the lines of ‘what are we? ‘ or ‘where is this going?’
Your role was to initiate the relationship and facilitate it: dates.
Once you have sex with a woman, it’s up to her to do things that will keep you around (be cooperative and compliant, and give you her feminine side: dress appropriately when with you in public, cook for you, provide peace and moral support, etc., etc.).
If she doesn’t put in effort to keep you, then you’ll marry her and she won’t feel the urge to impress you because you took the risk of marrying her without her having to do anything.
You need to know something about women. When she gets to the age of 28, the pressure to get married increases.
Her chances of reproducing reduce as she ages, there is pressure from home and she also wants the experience of a wedding.
So, if you are not rigorous as selecting, you may find a woman that’s run out of options and wants an unsuspecting dude to lock into marriage and return to her whore-ing once the honeymoon is over.
Remember, a person who’s less interested in something is the one who has more power and control.
What kind of man do you want to be?
