Solomon Serwanjja wants you to say sorry, but when?

The Qonduit
2 min readNov 2, 2021

The journalist Solomon Serwanjja has told us that sometimes it’s okay to say sorry.

But when exactly should we say sorry?

Only when you have wronged.

These days, with the popularity of cancel culture, some people have been forced to apologize even when they have done nothing wrong.

But because they want it to end or not lose their job, they just apologize.

But, you see, once you’ve apologized, whether you did it or not, you’ve just accepted that you did.

This gets worse when it comes to dating.

If you’re this guy who’s always apologizing because you’re afraid she’ll leave you, you’re acknowledging all sorts of things that she’ll use against you when she wants drama.

You know how women like gas-lighting. That day when you are in an argument, she’ll bring it all up.

When you come from work late, and you’ve been working so you can both get better, you can’t apologize for that.

Being a woman, she might get mad.

It’s okay to let her vent. Just listen.

But instead of an apology, that night you can give her great sex or surprise her with a gift or an outing at the weekend.

Women care more about what you do than what you say.

When it comes to a work environment and you have a boss with a weak ego, the one you know will fire you or withdraw the weekly bonuses, then you can apologize.

But to avoid this garbage, work hard so you’re in a position where you can always find another job or a new client if you are worried about losing a customer in a business.

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